Write with Your Heart, Not Just Your Head: Why Songwriting Is About Much More Than Craft

Write with Your Heart, Not Just Your Head: Why Songwriting Is About Much More Than Craft

“Sex sells,” the saying goes. Well, it’s not as sexy, but songwriting craft sells too. It’s teachable. It’s concrete. It’s measurable enough that you can watch it improve. The trouble is, a song isn’t just the nuts and bolts that hold it together.  Just like a chair is more than a piece of wood or plastic – it’s what it adds to a space, it’s who sits on it, it’s who it brings together. If it sounds like I ripped that from IKEA’s latest ad campaign, then good. Because whether it’s design, visual art, songwriting or making YouTube videos, the most important thing that drives people is connection. A sense of love and belonging. And because that’s what drives people, that’s what drives the best marketers, business owners and, yes, artists, to do what they do. To find ways to connect with people. To find ways to make people feel something. The trouble with songwriting is that songwriting craft is the simplest and most concrete thing you can talk about. It’s easy, if you’re that way inclined, to tell people that their songwriting dreams aren’t coming true because their songs aren’t well crafted enough yet. And maybe, just maybe, that’s true. But it’s only half the picture. We want your song to be well crafted as much as we want a chair to rest flat on the floor and not fall apart. But we equally want your song to make us feel something. To show us part of you. To make us feel more connected and less alone and scared. Songs are written with the heart, not the head. The...
Five Ways to Become a Better Songwriter

Five Ways to Become a Better Songwriter

Getting good at songwriting takes time. Plenty of time. And plenty of practice. And while the Internet is full of people promising to make this process super easy for you, the simple truth is that 90% of your growth as a songwriter comes from you sitting in a quiet room and getting on with it. It’s true: the best thing about songwriting is that it can’t be taught, only learnt. In other words, the only way to become really good at it is to teach yourself how to be the best version of the artist you are already. Still, great songwriters don’t come from nowhere. They learn from the artists who came before them. They learn from the artists who are around them today. They learn from people who are the top of their game as well as people who are going through the same challenges they are right now. Let’s talk about five great ways to learn from other songwriters at all different kinds of levels.   Get to Know More Songs As Tom Lehrer once said, “Life is like a sewer. What you get out of it depends on what you put into it.” And that’s true of your songwriting brain too. In other words, your skill as a songwriter is directly proportional to the volume of songs you know, that you can draw from (i.e. steal from) in your own work. Because while there are plenty of places, like this website, where you can pick up songwriting techniques in theory, those techniques make a lot more sense when you see them in use first-hand in the songs...
I Am an Idiot (and So Are You)

I Am an Idiot (and So Are You)

I am an idiot. For every time I’ve known the answer, there are three when I didn’t. For every time I’ve asked a smart question, there are four when I had to ask a dumb one. For every time I’ve been confident in a decision I’ve made, there’s been seven when I had no idea what I was doing. I’ve made mistakes. I’ve made big mistakes. I’ve told myself I’m crazy, I’m stupid, I have no right to do that, say that or ask that out on a date. I’ve been told “No”, “Um, no”, “Hell no”, “NO, PLEASE DON’T ASK ME AGAIN”. And yet, I’m still here. I am an idiot, and yet I’m still here. I am an idiot, and yet I’ve learned so much. I am an idiot, and yet I’m weirdly cool with that. I have a masters degree, a successful online business, an international career as a songwriter, and yet I still think I am an idiot. I have done so much, and yet I still keep asking dumb questions and making mistakes and being told “Hell no”. Because I am an idiot. And because I always will be. And one thing I, an idiot, have learned along the way is that the trick to true confidence isn’t knowing all the answers and doing everything right and being comfortable with your successes. It’s being comfortable with not knowing the answers and making mistakes and having big failures once in a while. Because in this thing called “living a life worth living” those things are going to happen, to everyone. (Because yes, you are an...
Great Songs Aren’t Written, They’re Rewritten

Great Songs Aren’t Written, They’re Rewritten

Songs aren’t written, they’re rewritten. PRETTY MUCH EVERY SONGWRITER EVER It’s a cliché but it’s true. Lots of art that looks like it was easy to make was not easy to make. Lots of songs that sound like they came out in one go, perfectly formed did not come out in one go, perfectly formed. Songs aren’t written, they’re rewritten. “Sure” you’ll tell me. “But what about Paul McCartney writing the melody to ‘Yesterday’ instantaneously in a dream!? That song became the third most-performed song of the Twentieth Century SO HE MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING RIGHT!!” And sure. It happens. Sometimes. (Especially when you’ve been writing songs for ten or twenty years.) But that’s not the full ‘Yesterday’ story: maybe the melody came to Paul McCartney in a dream, but the rest of the song didn’t come so fast. The first draft of the song had the dummy lyric: “Scrambled eggs, oh, my baby, how I love your legs…” (Seriously.) It took a lot of thinking before the snappy one-word title ‘Yesterday’ fell into place. Then it took a ton of persuading to convince McCartney that adding a string quartet to the song – it’d never been done before – was a good idea. And this is the ordinary, everyday reality for most songwriting: it often comes out slowly, and it often takes a ton of different tries to get right. This is what people call drafting. This is what people call rewriting. This is what some people call “HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TRY WRITING THE SECOND VERSE BEFORE IT F**KING WORKS?!?”.     Because catchy half-truths aside –...
Every Day’s a School Day

Every Day’s a School Day

Every day’s a school day. There’s always more to know. There’s always something you hadn’t considered. There’s always room for improvement. You never reach perfection, just like you never reach knowing it all. There’s no upper limit, just us mere mortals in the gutter looking up at the stars. This attitude is what makes all the difference between being average at what you do and becoming – with enough time – exceptional. There’s no single secret to greatness. There are thousands, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands. And you pick up those secrets only when you keep your mind open and learn something new day after day. True growth is incremental. Personal development – if it’s going to last – happens in baby steps, over years and decades, not weeks and months. Of course, some people don’t see it that way. Some people are so dumb they think they know it all. They’re so dumb they think they can. They’re so dumb they don’t realize how much they don’t know. So their ignorance owns them, not the other way round. Sure, it’s good to be confident in what you know. In fact, it’s essential you’re confident in what you know. But you can’t be confident in what you do know unless you’re confident in what you don’t know. And those who are confident in what they don’t know are ready to do something about it. Because, like I said, there’s no secret formula to expertise. It’s just a lot of knowledge and a lot of experience, gained over a lot of time. A talent is something you develop, not something...
Embrace the Maybe

Embrace the Maybe

Songwriting is a world of maybe. Maybe if I write this… Maybe if I hit up that co-writer… Maybe if I submit to that competition… Maybe if I try write in a different style… Maybe if I take a chance on that crazy idea… Too many people try to exist in a world of certainty. x = y. Effort = Reward. This action = This consequence. The trouble is, that’s not our world – in general, but especially in songwriting. Maybe if a butterfly flaps its wings in Australia it’ll cause a hurricane in Haiti. Maybe if that sick dude gets on that plane it’ll cause a global pandemic. Maybe if you write that song, something amazing will come of it. If not, maybe next time. It’s tempting (and reassuring) to live in a world of black and white. Where simple acts like ripping up a trade deal or building a wall seem like simple solutions to all our problems. But that’s not our world. Our world is complicated. Our world has lots of interconnected parts. Nobody can ever predict everything, ever with total certainty. Everybody is ultimately just winging it. I get it. We know more than we’ve ever known. We have access to more information than we’ve ever had. People are better and better at making predictions about the weather, the stock market, a presidential election in South America than they’ve ever been. But a prediction is not a guarantee. A map is not the territory. A method is not a rule.     Don’t be seduced into thinking anyone, ever has it all figured out. Actually, flat...


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